-People leave..People stay..you Love them all-
So many people have left in the past years! SO MANY.. that it is unbearable when you think about it.. its painful..to the extent it makes ya wonder if you can get close to the people you have now..is it ok to stay close or just being unattached is much better.. and it’ll simply be a relief if u just didn’t care about them.. I have lost a lot.. but Thank God.. God has replaced a lot of those who left with ones that I am so thankful that I am.. and I am so thankful for the people who stuck around….how can we save ourselves from not being hurt at the end? What would make people leaving easier? Not get close and attached is the answer? Or what exactly?
Do we enjoy the pain and rough times we experience after people leave??!! What is worse is when people leave this planet!! There are some people that are irreplaceable!! Some people right now am just so afraid of losing.. some one who over the years has been like my 2nd mother..my friend..i was like her favorite daughter….i miss her so much.. I miss the days I spent with her.. miss sleeping over her house.. miss her taking me out.. i am her favorite daughter..u see she doesn’t have kids..her siblings children are like her own..i try talking to her..she is just too far away now.. takin Chemo.. I know she will be all fine inshAllah coz I have faith..and I know she will be fine..
i don’t want anyone in my life to leave me!! AM SO SICK OF IT….if they know they will leave.. could they just not get closer!! but I think gettn close is nice.. is peaceful.. it is simply beautiful to be close to people who you care about and love..would I be able to handle them leaving and goin away..?? I am sure ill suffer like always..but it’ll all be good at the end.. do we enjoy suffering? I guess we do..
Suffering sometime makes us feel alive.. pain as well….i think it is for our own benefit to simply try everything out in this life..and we have to go around in circles coz that will simply make us dizzy..but at the end of the day we be just fine..
Those who left will always have a special place..memories are all we hold on too.. memories are beautiful and I love them…looking back at the nice things we’ve been through and experienced and see that we enjoyed and learnt stuff is good..
What is the key to not suffering? Or we just have to suffer every now and then? Coz sometimes this is simply what makes us alive..
Tata..actually..
Just before I end this post let me tell you what I think you should do.. hold on to those who you love.. show them you love them..memories the good and the bad ones..hold one to them…it is nice to look back at them every now and then..
Lots of love for all of the people who I love and who are in my life..
Loushi
posted by Loushi... @ 5/19/2007 07:20:00 AM
3 Comments:
hi luv,
i'm sure what ur going through is so terrrible to even imagine its possibility..
people do come and do go, it's not about how long they stay but the impressions they leave on your life.
as much as you'll try to not get attached or closer, it won't be possible, because of you caring and loving nature.. you need your people, even though it might be very hard right now, u need to be there for them and for your self. don't allow any regerts in your life.
if u try to leave a safe distance between you and between people, at first it migth just be a good way to keep from hurting, then eventually u'll turn cold and you won't ever connect to people again.
i'm sure your aunt will get better, u know medicine is better now.
as you said you need to show the people around you the way u feel about them, as it's important to now that you are loved by anyone:D
i hate writting but i will try my best to say something..well well well...wat an impressive thing, i liked your add so much, u remind me of the ones i like and love. keep all the once u like close never think that they will leave u one day coz that will make u affraid of making friednz and getting close to others. you do ur best to keep them close to you and never think they will forget about u, once they forget about u and leave u it means they dont value enough, but they will for sure always regret that they have left someone like you, someone cared about them, was always there for them...etc to have ppl close to u is an excellent thing, but good onse coz one g0od friend might change your life to better. i will tell u a real life story that happened to me. it might not be a g0od or an amazing one, but it changed me somehow. it tought me something. i was abroad studying and there was my friend`s gurl friend i met her. i was nice to her like i am always to others. i saw here couple of times..then she used to tell me to hang out with them..we barely knew each other. after about 2 to 3 weeks we went to a club, i dont drink dont chase gurls alot :), the gurl was a bit drunk. it says that babies and drunk ppl are the only ppl who never lie, anywayz she sees me and take me to a corner and said you are a g0od guy and stay like this...then she cries a littel she said my mom sent u to me .. (she had no mom, her mom past away when she was young 17yrs,now she is around 30 when i met her)i was like aaAaA shocked i was quite. she said plz plz plz stay the same dont change dont drink it is not g0od dont...she wasnt a muslim, but she gave me a short lecture telling me off bad things in life wat to do and wat not to do. indeed she was drunk but all wat she said was right i was amazed..at the end she huged me and said u r an angel sent to me by my mom. i was about to cry.
it was like a movie to me. i had lots of arab muslim friend abroad but no one has told me that drinkin is bad coz they drank or what i was doing not drinking is a g0od thing instead they tried to offer my drinks but they nver got lucky. but this lady tough me alot
i hope u get something out of this story, something uselfull like i did. i change to a better person for sure much better coz of her and we r close friends one of the best she is. to sum up coz it is getting late. i just wrote u this coz what u wrote was something that bothers alot of ppl nowadays but u try ur best to give the best to others and never ask to give u something in return. make them feel it and give u back in return when they feel. coz if u asked for it, it dosnt worth anything
i hope i didnt write too much.
i really hope you understood wat i wrote i got something out of it
if you need any help let me know
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